It’s easy to go with the flow and judge how your life is going by looking at your peers. Yet I find that isn’t enough to keep me in line with my values. Every once in a while I imagine that I would sit down with my 10-year-old and my 15-year-old self. What would they think of the life I am leading? How much of themselves would they recognize in me? What would delight them and what would be the tough questions? As weird as it sounds, I want those girls to be proud of me.