We all think we are right. We all think the things that concern us are the most important or at least more important than other people’s projects. Since we know that not everybody can be right we assume we are. But actually this is exactly how it’s supposed to be: we all treat whatever it is that we care about like the most important thing in the world. That way we can help it progress. As long as we remember that others are exactly like us in this regard all is good.