Something that I observe when doing strengths coaching is that people feel liberated by taking a strengths test. By seeing their strengths but also the activities which take energy away from them on paper people often take the results as permission to do what they always wanted to and reduce the activities that take energy away from them. What they tell me is that the confirmation of their strengths has this effect. So tell the people around you what they think they do best without expecting anything from them. Every once in a while you might be surprised to see that you either planted a seed or provided that last drop to make them finally prioritize something important to them.