It’s incredible how opinionated that voice in our head is. How it believes that it knows how things should work, even things which don’t matter at all or we have never done before in our lives. That voice will continuously look at everything we do, judge where we are at and decide that wherever that is, it’s not good enough. This is not personal, though it is personal how loud and how frequently you allow this voice to remain inside your head. It doesn’t like reasoning where you objectively point out, how it couldn’t know how to do something or how it doesn’t matter, because you are not partaking in a contest. It talks back to you at first to give you the illusion that this is not a way out. But if you calmly ask for evidence it will sulkily shut up. For a while.