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‘Oh he just wants attention’ is something that is commonly said about kids and sometimes adults. It’s an indication that one can safely ignore and carry on. Yet if someone needs attention, including you, why not give it? We often withhold things, because we feel someone will demand more than we can give, be it attention, time or other resources. But unless something is really wrong, most of us are not that unreasonable with what they request from others. Why not focus on this kind of generosity?